Hey friends!!!
Let’s see if I can make my thoughts make sense to you….
I’ve found myself talking a lot about my grief lately—sharing my process and how I’m feeling. I often discuss spirits and souls; it helps me cope with my grandmother’s absence. I truly believe that spirits are real, and I know each person carries a unique soul. So, you might catch me whispering to my granny, updating her on life, or just sharing my thoughts with her.
We rarely discuss grieving the loss of friendships. If I told you about my year, you might ask how I’m holding up. It's been a year since my losses began, but I’m grateful to God for allowing me to experience this journey. Each trial prompts me to reevaluate who I am as a person, a friend, a relative, a Christ follower, a woman…. so much! There’s always room for improvement, and I’ve learned so much along the way.
Right now, I’m grieving multiple losses: a cherished friendship, a sense of power and control, and, of course, family members—especially my grandmother, who was incredibly dear to me. It’s tough when life takes something away from you, and one event can trigger grief for many different things.
However, I’ve noticed that the grief from those lost friendships has gradually transformed into healing and gratitude. What once felt like an unbearable void is now an opportunity for growth and deeper connections with those who remain.
The loss of power and control, too, has made me stronger. It has taught me to stand up for what I want and what’s important to me. I’ve realized the importance of having my voice heard, and it has helped make my silence loud.
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the weight of multiple losses? How do you cope when grief feels like it’s compounding? Let’s open up this conversation—because grieving is a journey we all navigate or WILL HAVE to navigate one day, and it’s important to share our experiences.
Authentically,
Tam
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